Parents of the Year
We were never given a manual on how to parent. It is easy to get overwhelmed to know the right thing to do. There is so much contradictory information out there and everyone has their own advice. Parenting is a rewarding but messy, confusing, infuriating, guilt-inducing, and overwhelming journey. While it's easy to get lost, Andrew Stewart, a real dad, and Dr. Caroline Buzanko, a real mom, child psychologist, and parenting expert (who also happens to be married to Andrew) will help you get back on track. In each episode, Andrew and Caroline have open and honest chats about everything parenting. Join them in honesty, laughter, and tears (Caroline is a bit of a cry baby) as they help you navigate this journey of parenting. And, every so often, you may get some gems of expert advice. Our goal is to make your parenting journey less stressful, more forgiving, and more awesome. Please join us every Wednesday for new episodes of Parenting of the Year.
Parents of the Year
156. Are we teaching skills kids actually need?
Raising independent, capable kids isn’t about giving them the perfect road map—it’s about teaching them how to navigate life’s twists and turns.
In this episode of Parents of the Year, bestselling author and dad of four, Rob Finlay, joins us to break down the essential life skills kids need before stepping into adulthood.
From handling failure to managing finances, making decisions, and building strong relationships, we explore the real lessons that set kids up for success. Whether your child is five or fifteen, these practical takeaways will help you guide them toward independence without losing your sanity.
Homework Ideas
✅ Encourage Small, Independent Decisions
- Give kids opportunities to make their own choices—whether it's ordering food at a restaurant, scheduling their own appointments, or planning a small trip.
- Encourage them to keep a simple decision journal to track choices and outcomes.
✅ Normalize Failure & Problem-Solving
- The next time your child makes a mistake, respond with “That sucks! So what’s your plan?” instead of fixing it for them.
✅ Teach Essential Adulting Skills
- Have your child book their own appointments, handle a small budget, or make a grocery list and shop on their own.
- Use budgeting apps like Mint or YNAB to introduce financial responsibility.
✅ Encourage Networking & Social Skills
- Have kids practice introducing themselves to new people, making small talk, or reaching out for opportunities.
- Have them write a short email introducing themselves to a professional in a field they’re interested in and ask for advice.
✅ Practice Hands-On Problem-Solving
- Next time there's a minor household fix, involve your kids in the process. Teach them how to change a tire, check oil levels, or set up a simple budget.
About Rob
Rob is a WSJ bestselling author, accomplished entrepreneur, and dad of four who has been there. His new book, Hey Dad…: Everything You Should've Learned About Life (But Didn't), is a humorous and practical guide to the real-world lessons every young adult needs but few are taught. It’s also a treasure trove of advice for parents trying to help their kids transition into adulthood without losing their minds.
Find Rob:
https://www.instagram.com/robjfinlay/
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